Week 12 – If you are like most of us, Spring Break is either just wrapping up or about to start. With the kids at home you may have noticed how many toys they have strewn from one end of the house to the other. It may leave you wondering, where did all these toys come from and where can I put them all? Whether your children have gags of toys or a few per child, keeping them in an organized specific location will teach your children to pick up after themselves and appreciate the toys they have. When children have too many toys, parents tend to give them a “toy room” that could better be used as “family tv/game room”. Now you may need a toy “area” because children are too small to navigate the stairs. But that should only be a corner of the family area not a whole room.
Start a new tradition with your children today. If they are old enough, help them sort through their toys and have them donate or sell two or three toys in good condition to those less fortunate. It they aren’t old enough, you decide which two or three toys. You are teaching them an essential value as they grow to give instead of hoard. Reward them for generous giving by a point system. For every toy they give away they receive 5 points. When they reach 50 points they can pick a special activity for the two of you like going to a movie or the park!
Start by gathering all the toys in one room with some trash bags and clear totes of different sizes. First put the toys in 4 different piles: Toss (broken, puzzles with missing pieces, etc.), Sell or Donate (outgrown or never played with toys), Save to hand down to a younger sibling, and Keep. Thoroughly clean the toys to be sold or donated. Get a date scheduled on your calendar to do deliver them to a consignment shop, community yard sale, online classified sites or any charity you select.
Pick a location for the Keep toys. Keeping the toys in the child’s room will make them responsible for messes they make and value their toys more. Make sure there is plenty of clear storage box and baskets so they can easily locate what they are looking for and know where it belongs when they are cleaning. Labeling or taking a picture of the contents and taping it to the front of the storage container will help with this chore. Make the storage right for the child’s age and height. Put toys with smaller parts up higher so younger children can’t reach and when installing shelves make sure they are mounted to the wall to prevent accidents.
You will find there is more room in your child’s bedroom then you would believe. Look for storage to tuck under their beds, floor of closet, shelves on the walls or cubbies or many other such items. Use quart size storage bags to store puzzle pieces. Use cleaned plastic peanut butter jars to store crayons. Do a search online for storage for children’s room and see what comes up!
When your child is old enough set guidelines for them about how long a toy is allowed to be out of it’s “home” before it should be put away. If the toy is left out too long, then the toy must go into a time out for a certain number of days before your child can play with it again. This will teach them to pick up after themselves. Also giving your child a basket or tote to carry from room to room or place to place will help them learn to pick up after themselves.
“If you are one of those parents who can’t find it in your heart to part with the children’s toys, think about this: If you keep 5 things a year and have two children, by the time the reach 16 you will have 160 toys!!”[i]
[i] “Organize Now!” Jennifer Ford Berry, Copyright © 2008